Docent Council Established at Glessner House Museum

Jackie Walker Dunscomb was elected chair of the Docent Council for the Glessner House Museum at a meeting held this Saturday morning November 13, 2010. Walker Dunscomb will be responsible for organizing programs and events for the docents, as well as addressing broader topics such as what items to stock in the museum store and the upcoming 125th anniversary of the Glessner House.

Glessner House Museum executive director, Bill Tyre, addresses docents

If you are a regular reader of the SLC, Walker Dunscomb is no stranger to you. She's an author, (I Don't Have a Thing to Wear: The Psychology of Your Closet) speaker, and Vice President of the Prairie District Neighborhood Alliance (PDNA).

 

The Psychology of Wearing a Skirt

by Jackie Walker

Fact: 98% of all women are trouser driven. That means that they wear pants more than skirts.

As a young buyer of couture clothing, I remember a conversation with my divisional manager. I was delighted to show him a new concept in double knit that I had purchased for my department. It featured a double-breasted jacket and the ensemble came with a pant and a skirt. A three-piece outfit was new and exciting at the time. I mentioned to Mr. Spector that I was going to purchase one and wear it on my next buying trip and that I would have the duo of both foundations pieces to stretch a wardrobe while away.  

As long as you work for me you will never wear pants to the New York market,” he exclaimed loudly, “You will always wear a dress or skirt!”

Katharine Hepburn helped popularize trousers for women.

I recall those words with fondness and a bit of humor as I view the New York market today. Pant! Pants! Pants! Thank you, Katharine Hepburn for giving us the image of elegance and comfort.

Fact: Women wear trousers more today because they hate to wear pantyhose! As I make that statement in presentations around the country I get total confirmations from my audiences. I do believe there are other reasons that woman “skirt the issue” of wearing a skirt.

When we wear a pant the fabric is wrapped around the ankle or a bit higher in casual lengths. As we walk we control this fabric and take it with us. When we stand we pull the fabric in as we pull our legs together at the ankle. This creates a slimmer feeling for all women. We always want to be wider at the top and slimmer at the bottom. In wearing a skirt the fabric drops from the hip line and is not controllable or brought in so it adds visual weight to the bottom of your body. If it features an a-line look or a fuller skirt it also adds more visual weight. Depending on where you drop the horizontal line of the hemline against the leg it can reverse the desired image and make you look wider at the bottom. The petite torso can also take away inches from a woman’s height by the fabric going out at the bottom. This is especially evident when a woman is wearing a jacket.

“I haven’t worn a skirt in years,” said Lynda. “I just feel dowdy and fat. I want to wear one. I try them on and take them right off. There are occasions where I feel like it is more appropriate and yet I still can’t do it! Another issue is my shoes. I love the newer lower heels but they also feel better with a trouser and will not work with a skirt.”

I stood Lynda in front of a full-length mirror the next day. I placed her in a jacket that was the correct architecture for her stature. Then Lynda tried on that all too unfamiliar skirt. I kept Lynda from seeing the finished image until I corrected the too-long sleeve length and then raised the hemline to the right horizontal line. I turned Lynda around and reached for the hemline of the skirt, while I gently pulled back at the hemline just a bit, creating the image that the skirt narrowed in at the bottom. 

“I feel taller and slimmer,” cried out Lynda. “I am amazed at the difference and yet it is such a simple alteration.” 

The answer to feeling better in a skirt is pegging. Each woman just stands with her arms at her side. She places her palms inward. From her middle finger down to the hemline of the skirt she has it eased in just a bit to offer the illusion of what trousers have given her for years…a taller and slimmer appearance. Heel heights can be lower because the slimming of the bottom of the skirt along with the right horizontal hemline works well with a lower heel.

I never cease to be amazed and elated at the words my clients and audiences relate to their clothing. The word “feel” always replaces the word “look.” Just this simple alteration will make you feel more comfortable and confident and that is the answer to “dressing from the inside out.”

Jackie Walker is the author of the best-selling book I Don't Have a Thing to Wear: The Psychology of Your Closet. She is also the Vice President of the PDNA here in the South Loop. If you have any questions, you may ask it here, or e-mail the author at jax6014@aol.com or visit her Web site.


Ms. Walker is a South Loop Connection guest blogger. If you have something to share and would like to write a guest blog, please e-mail your ideas(s) to sreggie@sbcglobal.net.

The Psychology of Packing a Suitcase

by Jackie Walker

Vacations Should be Fun!
Vacations are a time to relax and get away from your day-to-day routine. Yet many of my clients seem to attach more stress to the process of planning their wardrobe for these occasions. Do you spend time thinking about what to wear? Do you then go shopping and search for the desired items?  More time is spent figuring out how to pack everything in those suitcases. What should you check and what goes in the overhead compartment? What should you wear on the plane?

STOP! All of this planning is done out of FEAR. You FANTASIZE that you will not have the right items for the EXPERIENCE. It APPEARS REAL. Here are some great ideas to make your time away from home fun rather than frustrating.

1. First, draw a circle. Above the circle write your destination and amount of days you will be traveling. List your activities.

2. Divide the circle into a pie chart listing your activities by percentages of time. List the clothing needed for these activities. For example, if you are going on a five-day cruise chart it this way.

• Formal wear  (one night)              10% of my circle
• Bathing suits                               15% of my circle
• Exercise Items                            15% of my circle
• Real casual, shorts, tees, etc.       40% of my circle
• Upscale casual                            20% of my circle

3. Select four colors to use as a base. One color is a basic such as black, navy, or brown. The second color is a neutral such as white or cream. The other two colors are your choice. Perhaps red and olive can be the other two. No matter what colors you chose all four work beautifully as solids, prints, and florals.

4. List the following classifications you wear above the waist.

• Jackets
• Blouses
• Shirts
• Tees
• Sweaters

5. List the following classifications you wear below the waist.

• Pants
• Skirts
• Shorts

6. Select the desired items in your personal colors and make sure they all mix and match.

7. Take three to four pairs of shoes in one of the base colors: black, navy, or your choice. One should be a flat casual, the other an upscale casua,l and the third a dressy fabric. Wear the bulkiest shoe (athletic shoe?) on the plane to keep the space in your suitcase.

8. Select a handbag that is versatile and slip a dressy one in your case.

9. Prior to your trip lay all the items out in full view on your bed. Rehearse your options and pack your suitcase according to your trip circle. (see above) Ten per cent of the suitcase should be in formalwear. This could be one dressy dress or dressy top and pants. Fifteen per cent should be bathing suits. Two suits and a cover-up that could also go out at night as a shawl are ideal. Now you get the concept.

10. Always pack your cosmetics and essentials in a separate bag that goes with you on the plane.

Once you zip that bag shut you are on your way. You will have closet confidence in that hotel or cruise ship closet. Instead of a ton of outfits you will have a ton of options. You will be making new outfits right there on vacation by using the same pieces in effective ways. As you shop on that vacation--our favorite sport--pick up a couple of pieces in your core colors and you will create six to seven new looks as you travel along the way.

No Fear
No More FEAR! No more fantasizing that you will not have the item for the experience. I leave you with five thoughts.

1. Plan ahead-Use the Circle
2. Select items not outfits
3. Rehearse your Options
4. Pack
5. Have Fun!

If you have any questions, you may ask it here, or e-mail the author at jax6014@aol.com or visit her Web site.

Jackie Walker is the author of the best-selling book I Don't Have a Thing to Wear: The Psychology of Your Closet. She is also the vice president of the PDNA here in the South Loop.